You're navigating cancer with someone you love. You don't have to do it alone.
I'm Tiffany. I'm a registered nurse with 20+ years inside the healthcare system. I'm also the woman who walked cancer with my husband until the end. I do this work because I've sat in your seat.
No pitch. No pressure. Just a real conversation about where you are and what to do next.
You weren't trained for this. Almost nobody is.
A diagnosis lands. Suddenly you're inside a system you don't understand, making decisions you don't feel qualified to make, for someone whose life depends on it.You leave appointments wishing you'd asked five more questions. You lie awake wondering if the medication is right. You're the one tracking the symptoms, calling the insurance company, holding the family together, and quietly falling apart at 11pm.You don't need more pamphlets. You don't need another website telling you to "practice self-care."You need a healthcare insider who works for you. Someone who can translate the medicine, prep you for the hard conversations, and help you stop reacting and start steering.That's what I do.
I've been on both sides of the bed.
I'm Tiffany Auvil, RN. For more than twenty years I've worked inside hospitals, oncology clinics, ICUs, and family meetings. I've sat with hundreds of families through the worst weeks of their lives.I've also been one of those families.My husband had cancer, and I walked it with him until the end. I was the spouse calling the after-hours line, sleeping in the recliner, asking the questions, signing the forms, holding it together for our family while quietly falling apart. I had every clinical credential you could have, and there were still nights I had no idea what to do.That's the thing about this work. Knowing the medicine doesn't spare you. Loving someone with cancer is its own kind of knowing.I'm also a former senior healthcare leader and a certified functional medicine health coach. But the credential that shapes how I show up for clients is the one I never wanted:I've been you.I work in this gap because I've stood in it. I'm a healthcare insider who works for you — and I'm someone who has been where you are. That combination is what I bring into every session.
Coming June 13, 2026 — pre-order now.
The No BS Guide for Caregivers: How to Survive the Healthcare Maze
This is the book I wish someone had handed me when Dave was diagnosed. And the book I wish I could hand to every family I've ever sat with through the worst weeks of their lives.It's not a fluffy caregiver manual. The title is The No BS Guide for a reason — there's no warm-and-fuzzy filler.Inside: how to organize the chaos, how to fight prior authorizations, how to read a hospital bill, how to navigate family dynamics, how to talk to the medical team in a way that gets you real answers, and how to say goodbye when it's time. Some of Dave's story runs through it too, because I can't write about caregiving honestly without honoring the person who taught me what it really means.Available in paperback, hardcover, ebook, and audiobook starting June 13, 2026.
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It's the guide I wish every family had in their pocket walking into the first big appointment.